letting go

letting go does not mean to stop caring � it means I cannot do it for someone else.
letting go is not to cut myself off � it�s the realization that I can�t control another.
letting go is not to enable � but to allow learning from natural consequences.
letting go is to admit powerlessness which means the outcome is not in my hands.
letting go is not to try to change or blame another � it�s to make the most of myself.
letting go is not �care for� � but to �care about�.
letting go is not �to fix� � but �to be supportive�.
letting go is not to judge � but to allow another human being to be human.
letting go is not to be in the middle, arranging all of the outcomes � but to allow others to affect their destinies.
letting go is not to be protective � it�s to permit another to face reality.
letting go is not �to deny� � but �to accept�.
letting go is not to nag, scold or argue � but instead to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.
letting go is not to criticize and regulate anybody � but to try to become what i dream i can be.
letting go is not to regret the past � but to grow and live for the future.
letting go is to �fear less� � and �love more�.