moving on

just hopped onto the friendster bandwagon. and as i was reading what some of you guys(ok, actually only 2) wrote of me. i took a good look at myself and asked myself what kind of a person i was the last 21 odd years. i realised that i haven't made a lot of friends since i left secondary school. that i have been sticking to the same bunch ever since. that sometimes my choice of friends baffles the people who really bother about me. that i tend to neglect those who really bother about me.

someone once assumed that just because i have been friends with some people for so long, that i am good, close friends with them. i told her -- being friends for a long time does not mean you are good friends, it just simply mean that you are longer friends with them.

it just doesn't work this way anymore. not for me.